Jenna Teves, PhD, a therapist at Center For Improving Relationships, was recently quoted in an article filled with tips for couples moving in together.
Here’s a summary of the article:
Moving in together is a significant milestone for couples, bringing both excitement and challenges. To ensure a smooth transition, it’s essential to plan ahead by discussing expectations, responsibilities, and financial plans before cohabitation. Open communication about household chores, design preferences, and daily routines can prevent misunderstandings and make both partners feel valued.
Financial matters are a common source of stress for cohabitating couples. It’s crucial to have honest conversations about budgeting, shared expenses, and financial priorities early on. Establishing a fair plan—such as dividing expenses based on individual earnings—ensures financial harmony while maintaining independence. Clear communication in this area helps both partners focus on building a home together without financial misunderstandings.
Balancing shared and personal space is another key aspect of successful cohabitation. Creating a home that reflects both partners’ styles while maintaining areas for individual needs fosters a sense of ownership and comfort. Additionally, navigating conflicts with care by approaching disagreements with understanding, open dialogue, and a problem-solving mindset can strengthen the relationship and create a harmonious living environment.
This is what Jenna said:
Moving in together is an exciting milestone in a relationship, but it often comes with some challenges. As you merge two households into one, you might encounter friction along with the joys. Perhaps you load the dishwasher differently, one of you is messier than the other, or you have different tastes in furniture or daily routines.
While compromise can solve some issues, preferences often tie back to deeper emotional needs. During conflicts, it’s tempting to turn away or against each other, but instead, try turning toward your partner. By approaching these sensitive areas with kindness and curiosity, you create the opportunity for deeper intimacy and understanding.
You can read the whole article here — Tips for Couples Cohabitating for the First Time | ApartmentGuide.com
